It is scientifically proved that children have the most active mind as at their initial stages of life the brain tries to observe things around themselves and wants to have look at this vast world which is so complicated to understand. The brain is so active in observing things around it that it observes each and every phenomena which occurs around it, using this it makes some believes in its memories about many things like movement, way to work under gravity and also how to breath. It is just like a programmer programming his robot or system to survive in this vast complicated world. Each and every thing that it observes is stored in the brain either in the conscious part which a person remembers or what we call as experiences and others which it observes but don’t remember still gets stored in the sub-conscious mind which helps the brain to work in special conditions to take decision for the body what to do.
This is the truth and taking this is mind we all should think before speaking to every child as our words can have a different and forever impact on his/her mind. The way a person looks to this world is the way he learnt to love in this world and what he learnt is by his observation or behavior of other people towards him, especially parents who are the most close to him.
Think positive in life to make good things happen in life, this is what we always say to motivate a person and also believe me friends that this is the truth. If you want a child to become a good guy then make him an optimistic person which can only happen if you will not demotivate him, if you always try to cheer him up and tell him that look to the future and try to improve it doing your best in the past as what you sow today is what you get tomorrow.
Never try to underestimate a child as your words for him will make him feel not capable to do big things in life and this will make him weak and dependent on others for even a small thing which he can surely do on his own. Always try to motivate a child for even difficult things tell him too try again and again till he is not able to reach his targets. And as a parent I believe that it is the most important responsibility to make your child understand that he can do anything which he thinks of.
Parent is the guardian and it is the duty to help the child grow in a manner so that he can become a good citizen in the world and so we should support him to the full extent as we can.I am sharing all these tips with respect to article https://www.rewardme.in/family/child-and-you/article/5-things-you-should-never-say-to-your-kids posted in section https://www.rewardme.in/family/child-and-you.